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People
Maddie (Good Friend!)
Me (...The legend)
Sophie (GF)
Problem
I used to love Maddie, she was the nicest sweetest girl in the world, However, she is a BIG flirt and talks to nearly EVERY lad in the area. She just CANT be trusted as a girlfriend. I was delighted when i was asked out by Sophie, her mate, BUT afterwards Maddie admitted to reli liking me which, considerin i liked her, was pretty bad for me. Im happy with Sophie, i can trust her! but Maddie is constantly looking for ways to get with me....and with her inviting herself to my house for a sleepover with a load of drink...it seems this lass is doin all she can to get rid of Sophie...if im honest, i wud sleep wiv Maddie if she was drunk but rarely drink anyway. I cant lose Sophie.
Need to get Maddie to realise..im just a friend!....BUT HOW??

Omg nice post man, i really like that. very well done, thats you done for a whole year now :L just kidden, keep it up mate

suggestion: ok, so tell this maddie chick that you HAD feelings for her, but they've progressed through that. tell her you feel your relationship with her has grown stronger and you feel you can go to her for anything. but you feel for her in more of a friend way than girlfriend. tell her you value her greatly as a friend and always want her to be a part of your life, just not necessarily as your g/f, lover, etc.

nice advice dracula a like it mate

Back from Serbia now guys so Hi

Not too much of a bad problem mate, two girls liking you....

Heres what you should do, first, post some pics of the girls here. Second, consider married life with your gf, will it work?can it work? be realistic!

There is so many birds out there man, ive just come back from holiday and ive gotta say i saw no overweight birds, they are all fit as! even the brits at the festival were lovely!

Went to Exit festival where the 22yr old died btw

If ur happy with the gf then fair play but u may be kicking yourself later in life if things dont work out. I used to go out with this model, she was dim as fuck but so pretty. She wanted to settle but i had a think and thought i cant be with someone who hasnt got stimulating conversation for the rest of my life so ended it.

Was the hardest thing to do as my mates were ripping me to shreads over it and she was a nice girl but it had to be done

Im still single and ive gotta say im loving it, france spain portugal (twice) germany and ibiza last year, serbia global gathering and ibiza this year. Cant get much better dipping my line into the ponds right now.

This has most prob fucked ur head up more but i hope it helps bro